Showing posts with label positive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label positive. Show all posts

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Be A Changer

At some point or another, we all need words of encouragement to fuel our souls and give us the inner strength we need to just keep going in life. There will be times where the sun will shine bright and everything is happy go lucky; but other times, you just want to crawl under a rock and just stay there forever.

The book of Ecclesiastes speaks about time. There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. (Read chapter 1)

So, don’t beat yourself up if you’re having a bad day, because there is a time to laugh just as there is a time to weep. There will be days where you will be strong and courageous and will conquer the whole world. But then there will be days where you feel so weak, you won't even have the strength to hurt a fly. And I want to tell you that its ok to feel that way, it just shows that you’re human!
Scott Burdett

It is in those times that we must rely on people who can give us an encouraging word to uplift our spirits. Yes, we can go to the bible and God will give us the strength and power we need to jump right back up and shake off that funk that we’re in. But it’s so important to have a friend or a support group where you can go to and say, I need you right now and not feel ashamed about it. People who you can trust and know they will give you an honest word of encouragement.

Today, I encourage you to be a changer, to be an encourager, to lift up the hands of those who are weary and have no strength, may your words be medicine to their souls. We all long for encouragement. Your words, your act of presence, your smile, your “I’m here for you” your emails, text messages, phone calls, letters, Facebook post, tweets, or random act of kindness and generosity is what can help someone in a time of need.

The world is full of people who are lost, who have given up on hope, who are going through hardship and have no one to turn to for encouragement. Make yourself available to fulfill that need and bring a ray of sunlight into someone’s dark world. We are called to be the light of the world. (Read Matthew 5:14,15) You and I can make the difference. Be a changer!

I leave you below with a few encouraging words I found from the book “Encouragement Changes Everything” by John C. Maxwell.

In a later post, I will include more encouraging messages from this book because it’s just that amazing!

Be Encouraged, Be Blessed!
Landy Perez-Feliciano



1. Encouragement is oxygen to the soul.
-George Matthew Adams



2. An Experiment in Encouragement
Years ago, an experiment was conducted to measure people’s capacity to endure pain. How long could a bare-footed person stand in a bucket of ice water? It was discovered that when there was someone else present offering encouragement and support, the person standing in the ice water could tolerate pain twice as long as when no one else was present.


3. Encouragement is deciding to make your problem my problem.

-John C. Maxwell


4. Encourage Yourself

Don’t let yourself…
  • Worry when you’re doing your best.
  • Hurry when success depends on accuracy.
  • Think evil of anyone until you have the facts.
  • Believe a thing is impossible without trying it.
  • Waste time on trivial matters.
  • Imagine that good intentions are a satisfactory excuse.
  • Harbor bitterness toward God or person.


5. Let no feelings of discouragement prey upon you, and in the end you are sure to succeed.

-Abraham Lincoln


6. Positively Wired
A study was done by psychologist Henry H. Goddard on energy levels in children. He hooked children up to a device called an ergo graph to see how they would respond to the words of others. He found that when tired children were given a word of praise or commendation, the ergo graph showed they experienced an immediate surge in energy. But when the children were criticized or discouraged, the device showed their energy took a sudden nosedive.
Never underestimate the power of an encouraging word.

7. The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him his own.
-Benjamin Disraeli



Saturday, December 14, 2013

Speak Life

 

“Sticks and stones may break my bones but names/words can never hurt me” - Nursery Rhyme

 

Now think...think..think....

 

I remember screaming this back to kids who during recess would hurl mean words at me and to be honest, I think I might have been on the receiving end of this infamous statement as well :-).  But the truth is that words do hurt and names do mark us and to think otherwise is a great danger.  I believe wholeheartedly that a truer statement of the power of words came from a Journalism teacher I once had in college.  He said:

 

“We are wordsmiths and as such, are responsible for the words we share”  

 

Words have power.

 

The Bible further confirms this.  Take a look at the infamous “Tongue = Life or Death” scripture:

 

Proverbs 18:21

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it [for death or life]. (AMP)

 

Your words have much more power than you attribute to them:  The power to build and tear down, the power to encourage or discourage, the power to love to hate, etc.  The list goes on and on!



 Can I share a story with you?  Great!  Here goes:

 

A few years ago, I received a call to put a band together for an international Christian artist who would be on tour in the Tri-State area.  I was excited to take on the task not because it was  my first time but because I am so passionate about music.  I immediately called friends who are phenomenal musicians and asked them to come on board on yet another band I had to put together.  

 

Drums?  CHECK!.......Guitars?  CHECK.......Bass?  CHECK!........Keys?  Check?!?!  (Hmmmm)

 

I usually play keys for these bands but recently felt insecure in my gift (yes yes, it happens to the best of us).  However, I took a bold step and shut down all insecurities, I thanked God for my gift and was also encouraged by a circle of phenomenal musicians who believed in my gift and would SPEAK LIFE into my life as a musician.  

 

After months of preparation, I received a call from the artist’s manager.  I still remember that I pulled the car into the church parking lot as I saw his name pop up on my phone’s screen and with excitement I picked up the call:

 

“Hey! God bless!”

“Hey Ruthy...”

“What’s going on?”

“Listen, I know you’ve been putting the band together but when the artist heard you were playing keys, he said ‘If she is playing, I’d rather sing alone with tracks’”

[Silence]

“Thanks Ruthy but if you’re playing, we have to cancel the band”

“.....ok, God bless”

 

I froze......pain in my chest....fingertips cold...speechless......

 

I walked out of the car and into the back door of the church.  As I opened the door, my father stood at the bottom of the steps with his usual “¿Como estas mi linda?” I fell into his arms and sobbed uncontrollably.  The wordsmith who once sat in a Journalism class, the little girl who would yell at recess “words can never hurt me” now stood as a woman, unable to form a thought because words had literally shattered her to pieces; they had spoken death over her life as a musician.  Every insecurity came up, every doubt in my gift screamed louder than any word of encouragement could during that season of brokeness.  A series of events before and after multiplied the hurt and like a night stand, my keyboards became places for books, jewelry and dust....nothing more, nothing less.

 

But God! Yes, But God!!

 

That season of brokeness sparked by the words of a manager came to an end when I surrendered the broken pieces of my heart to my Creator and He spoke words of love, kindness and confirmed that the gift He had given me was entrusted to the right person..Me!  God then placed others that once again spoke life into me.  I decided to push myself as a musician, learn more, do more. Wow!  Words nearly sent me down a path of destruction BUT GOD!!

 

So how does this story end?  It doesn’t. Instead it grows with me as I continue to understand that my words DO have power and that I am responsible to build up those around me.  Even a word of rebuke spoken in love will speak life!  

 

BE ENCOURAGED! Those words that were spoken over you to seemingly destroy are cancelled by the one who Created you!  He knows you best and will surround you with His best.  

 

Speak Life :-)


Ruthy Rodriguez 





{Thank you Ruthy for being my guest blogger today and sharing this heart-felt message. Remember to always Speak Life!}


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