Friday, September 19, 2014
God Is Good
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
Steps
Saturday, December 14, 2013
Speak Life
“Sticks and stones may break my bones but names/words can never hurt me” - Nursery Rhyme
Now think...think..think....
I remember screaming this back to kids who during recess would hurl mean words at me and to be honest, I think I might have been on the receiving end of this infamous statement as well :-). But the truth is that words do hurt and names do mark us and to think otherwise is a great danger. I believe wholeheartedly that a truer statement of the power of words came from a Journalism teacher I once had in college. He said:
“We are wordsmiths and as such, are responsible for the words we share”
Words have power.
The Bible further confirms this. Take a look at the infamous “Tongue = Life or Death” scripture:
Proverbs 18:21
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it [for death or life]. (AMP)
Your words have much more power than you attribute to them: The power to build and tear down, the power to encourage or discourage, the power to love to hate, etc. The list goes on and on!
Can I share a story with you? Great! Here goes:
A few years ago, I received a call to put a band together for an international Christian artist who would be on tour in the Tri-State area. I was excited to take on the task not because it was my first time but because I am so passionate about music. I immediately called friends who are phenomenal musicians and asked them to come on board on yet another band I had to put together.
Drums? CHECK!.......Guitars? CHECK.......Bass? CHECK!........Keys? Check?!?! (Hmmmm)
I usually play keys for these bands but recently felt insecure in my gift (yes yes, it happens to the best of us). However, I took a bold step and shut down all insecurities, I thanked God for my gift and was also encouraged by a circle of phenomenal musicians who believed in my gift and would SPEAK LIFE into my life as a musician.
After months of preparation, I received a call from the artist’s manager. I still remember that I pulled the car into the church parking lot as I saw his name pop up on my phone’s screen and with excitement I picked up the call:
“Hey! God bless!”
“Hey Ruthy...”
“What’s going on?”
“Listen, I know you’ve been putting the band together but when the artist heard you were playing keys, he said ‘If she is playing, I’d rather sing alone with tracks’”
[Silence]
“Thanks Ruthy but if you’re playing, we have to cancel the band”
“.....ok, God bless”
I froze......pain in my chest....fingertips cold...speechless......
I walked out of the car and into the back door of the church. As I opened the door, my father stood at the bottom of the steps with his usual “¿Como estas mi linda?” I fell into his arms and sobbed uncontrollably. The wordsmith who once sat in a Journalism class, the little girl who would yell at recess “words can never hurt me” now stood as a woman, unable to form a thought because words had literally shattered her to pieces; they had spoken death over her life as a musician. Every insecurity came up, every doubt in my gift screamed louder than any word of encouragement could during that season of brokeness. A series of events before and after multiplied the hurt and like a night stand, my keyboards became places for books, jewelry and dust....nothing more, nothing less.
But God! Yes, But God!!
That season of brokeness sparked by the words of a manager came to an end when I surrendered the broken pieces of my heart to my Creator and He spoke words of love, kindness and confirmed that the gift He had given me was entrusted to the right person..Me! God then placed others that once again spoke life into me. I decided to push myself as a musician, learn more, do more. Wow! Words nearly sent me down a path of destruction BUT GOD!!
So how does this story end? It doesn’t. Instead it grows with me as I continue to understand that my words DO have power and that I am responsible to build up those around me. Even a word of rebuke spoken in love will speak life!
BE ENCOURAGED! Those words that were spoken over you to seemingly destroy are cancelled by the one who Created you! He knows you best and will surround you with His best.
Speak Life :-)
Ruthy Rodriguez
{Thank you Ruthy for being my guest blogger today and sharing this heart-felt message. Remember to always Speak Life!}
Photo Credit: With Love Photography
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Power Source
Friday, May 24, 2013
There is purpose {Speak Life}
Monday, May 6, 2013
Start Right
I can almost assure you that although I still do not love Mondays, (love is such a strong word) I do not despise it. I look forward to starting the work week right. You are given an unbelievable power that many do not know they possess; you get to set the tone to what the rest of the week will be for you. Isn’t that awesome? When you have the right attitude, life runs so much smoother than when you’re acting like a scrooge. I’m not saying that every Monday for the rest of your life is going to be pure joy; of course we are going to have our days, we’re humans. What I am saying is that your attitude plays a big part of how your day will be. If you choose to have a good day regardless of what happens, chances are your day will be good. If you start each week with the right attitude and declare that it will be a blessed, purposeful and productive week, it will be just that. There is power in what you declare and there is also power in your actions.
Friday, April 12, 2013
Empty Nest
It's still hard to believe that Ronny, the baby of the family is all grown up and will be embarking on a whole new journey will his lovely wife to be, Elissia. I am so proud of the man he has become and I know he will be a wonderful husband and the coolest dad (someday).
I know that tomorrow will be a day full of different types of emotions (Kleenex please!) Our friends and family along with our church will be celebrating their union as man and wife. There will be a lot of tears (of course, it's Papa we're talking about.. 96% of the church saw him in diapers..) there will be laughter, happiness, joy but especially, the family (my parents specifically) will be experimenting the "empty nest"... again! And although, it will be tough, but I know that my parents and our family as a whole is so happy to formally welcome Elissia into our family. She makes my brother complete, brings out the best in him and makes him happy and that is all we ever wanted for him, happiness!
So, as I write these lines, I think back at our childhood together and how much fun we had growing up together, laughing, crying, playing pranks on each other, fighting... etc.. the joys of having a sibling. And something my sister and I always tell him is that He will never be too grown for us, we will always be his big sisters (in age.. obviously not in height) and we will always love him, give him an earful, pinch him, punch him, hit him.. in other words, he will still endure all of the sisterly abuse he endured during his childhood. His wife will see that things have not changed one bit in our relationship as siblings and they will never change because we have a special, unique, weird bond that only we understand!! Lol
Ronny, I want to tell you that I love you so much, you are the BEST brother anyone could have, although you are the youngest, many times you acted as the oldest because your young years are full of wisdom. I know that God will continue to bless you and your new family in this new chapter of your life.
God Bless you baby brother! xoxo
Landy Perez-Feliciano ♥





